It’s Sunday today and that means it’s time for an extra video from ALBOE.nl. Today, Annic van Wonderen and I give you five handy tips that you can use to get more self-confidence. So, do you suffer from a lack of self-confidence and would you like to be more positive in life? Be sure to do something with our tips and focus on the positive!
5 tips for more self-confidence
Of course, I’ve put our tips below for you so you can read it carefully.
Tip 1: Put yourself on number one
How selfish it sounds, it’s incredibly important to put yourself on number one. Not to neglect others, but because it is very important that you take care of yourself. That way, you can be the best version of yourself.
Tip 2: Try to say no more often
Do not always try to plead someone else by saying yes, but choose something more often for yourself! Deadlines, commitments and social pressure can be reasons that make you feel stressed and may feel less confident. Say yes to the things you would like to do and say no to things you get a bad feeling about.
Tip 3: Focus on the positive
Think and talk about yourself negatively and do you notice less self-confidence? Turn it over! Concentrate on the positive points of yourself and say (in my view aloud) to yourself why you like something nice or fun to yourself. Everyone is uncertain, but try to focus on the positive.
Tip 4: Do not think of another
From my own experience, I can say that it is very annoying to think for another. For years, I have made my mind about the opinions of other people and I have become very insecure because I took all kinds of negative thoughts in my mind. In fact, I let my own behavior depend on the negativity in my mind.
Recently, I learned to let go of these negative thoughts and not to be busy with what others think. Nowadays I’m getting blank and I do not make any assumptions. I can tell you that my self-confidence has grown incredibly.
Tip 5: Make sure you look after it
It may sound a bit superficial, but it is very important to spend attention on yourself and your appearance. By choosing clothes, make-up and a hairstyle you feel comfortable and comfortable, you immediately radiate more self-confidence.
As a matter of priority, we have a handy tip that is in conjunction with all the tips above. Namely: just do! Say something more no, make more time for yourself, give yourself a compliment and try not to think for another. I know it sounds easy. But I can tell you … It’s a matter of just doing!